The Ultimate Blog Party is Here:

(I’ve been a fan of Janice and Susan since 2006 when I first started blogging, and I’ve been so excited to watch their sites grow over the years. They are brilliant, savvy women. No one does sites for women better than them.)

Ultimate Blog Party 2009

Welcome! I hope that you will enjoy your visit and return to MMM often.

I’m always late to the party (actually, last year I managed to be the very first person on the UBP Mr. Linky. But that was an exception), so let me just jump right in with my intro:

I am Karla, the founder of Modern Media Mom. I’ve been blogging at my (neglected) personal blog, Looking Towards Heaven, since March of 2006. I love blogging. Recently, my other sites: Fruition Designs (where I sell Mommy Cards, stationery and Blog Design) and Modern Media Mom have nudged out a lot of my personal blogging time, but I’m trying to find more balance with it all.

My mission here at Modern Media Mom is to help you sort through the technical talk so that you can actually use the internet and technology to make your life easier.

Peek around. Hang out! You are sure to find useful and helpful information here.

I also have the latest headlines in technology that are relevant to you.

I’d love it if you’d subscribe (see that bright orange RSS button in the upper right corner? You can subscribe via feedreader or email) and spread the word.

You can also follow Modern Media Mom on Twitter.

If you have a blog or a mom-business, be sure to join in the fun at 5 Minutes for Mom!

PS: Enter UBP09 on your Blog Design order form, and you’ll get 10% off the Completely Custom package, 15% off the CompletelyUnique package and 20% off Completely You package, from now until March 30th.

Yet again, WAY more than you ever wanted to know about me

Cyndy said … : I’m very curious about your design ‘stuff’. I always like your headers and buttons. Did you study design in college? Are you self taught? What computer programs do you use? Do you have a “design philosophy”? I was a graphic design major just before graphic design moved to the computer. I’ve kinda been out of it for awhile and I’m trying to update myself…oy that could take awhile…phbbt!

You know what? There is a really sad story that answers your question. I may have even eluded to its answer here before. But I am dealing with a sore throat today and so I’m not going to search around for it. (not sure what a sore throat has to do with searching around through my old posts. But apparently, for me today, I’ve got issues with it.)

Here is my sad tale:

(*warning: it is long and I applaud you if you stick through and read the entire answer)

I have always loved art. In fact, I was in a lot of art programs throughout school.

In middle school, I was pulled out of class to be a part of special artist-in-residence programs. In high school I took AP (advanced placement) art classes, working on a portfolio for art school. I was also in a Visual and Performing Arts Program through my school district. You had to audition, like Fame, but without all of the dancing in the hallways. Though we did manage to rock the big hair.

To audition for visual art meant going in on a Saturday (EARLY) and drawing all day and presenting your portfolio. Once in the program, it meant that all morning, every school day, I was in art classes – art history, art theory, drawing, painting, sculpture etc. I carried a drawing pad with me everywhere.

I had big plans for myself. My art teachers had big plans for me too.

But for some reason, during my senior year, I got nervous about going to an art school. (I really really really reaaaallllly wanted to go to Maryland Institute College of Art or Corcoran College of Art and Design. REALLLLLLY.) I don’t know why. I must not have been as sure of myself as my teachers were.

I ending up going to the local community college, with plans of going for two years and then transferring on to an art college for my last two years.

My first year of college, I took mostly graphic design courses, with some English and math splattered in there, for good measure. This was in 1989, so, like you, Cyndy, it was right at the beginning of using computers for design. The only thing we used computers for was to print out text for our mock ups. Everything else was done by hand – all of the drawing and scaling and measuring. And cut and paste meant, well, cut and paste – with real scissors and glue.

You had to know how to draw, as well as how to place things on a page.

My first year went really well – worked my butt bottom off on projects. A couple of my professors were a little loopy. One loopy professor dragged us out to llama farms to draw and paint the llamas. Do you know what llamas do when they are agitated? They spray the most rancid spit. And apparently, they become agitated quite easily.

My second year started well. I even took piano that year. Second semester, I took a course with a professor who a well-known artist. It was a small class and we all enjoyed working together and discussing our projects. This same professor single-handedly put an end to my aspirations of becoming a graphic designer. (I hate to give him that much credit though)

Here’s a novel idea that was driven home that semester: If you are a professor or teacher, please clearly state the requirements for projects/student work and then grade accordingly. When you grade based on your emotions and not the actual work, that is hard for this self-conscious emotional a girl to take.

Grading artwork is totally subjective if you don’t grade by a set of requirements. We all know that four people can look at the same piece of art and have four different reactions to it.

Here was his grading system, as it became apparent as the semester progressed: Same drawing style as him? : A/B Different drawing style from him? : C-/D+… maybe a good solid C if the sun was shining properly that day.

I felt like a spoiled brat letting him hurt my feelings like that. And I knew I needed a dose of reality before I went before some board to present my ideas only to have them hate them all and make me start over. But waaaaaaahhhh!!!! it was a struggle all semester. By the end of the semester, I was so worn down from trying to create work he would appreciate, that it had removed almost all of the joy I felt when I created art.

I did not pick up a drawing pad or paint brush for over 10 years. I couldn’t face not doing what I had set out to do. So I stuffed that down and ignored it.

10 years.

During that time, I tried to pretend like I was not a creative person. It just made me depressed.

When we lived in Wisconsin, I needed an outlet; a hobby. I started quilting. This was a small step back to allowing myself to be creative. Eventually, because of a weird series of events, I ended up with a part time job at a design studio/print shop.

It may sound overstated, but it was like removing a blindfold. Or getting the proper prescription for eyeglasses after wearing the wrong pair for years. That is one of the reasons I named my business Fruition Designs. It is the realization of a goal I had years ago.

Computers have opened my original path back up to me. Now, I am free to create and design. And it pleases me to no end!

andthat’sallIhavetosayaboutthat. Amen.

As for the last part of your question (aren’t you so sorry you asked?!?) I am self-taught when it comes to using the computer for my designs. I use CorelDraw Products and have used it since vs. 9. I love it. I’ve used Photoshop and Illustrator. In fact, I have them. But I find CorelDraw products to be much easier and you get the same results. (Paint Shop Pro is every bit as good as Photoshop and it’s $60.00. I’m not kidding – it does everything Photoshop does, and you can use many of the Photoshop plug-ins)

Somewhere along the line, PCs and anything but Photoshop/Adobe products became the ugly stepsister of graphic design. Maybe it is just my rebel streak… but I prefer PCs and Corel Products. I think it is foolish to spend way more for a similar product.

andthat’sallIhavetosayaboutthat. Amen.

Oops – And didn’t you ask my design philosophy? (Are you even there anymore? Is that snoring I hear?)

Can’t say I have a design philosophy. I just create what I like. I try to keep it fresh and clean. There is a lot of busy-ness in design trends right now. And, while I really like it and am visually drawn to it, I also know that for certain platforms, it is distracting – like the awful background on my blog here. The one that I can’t manage to take the 2 seconds it would take to remove and save my retinas from bleeding one more time when I open up my blog.

andthat’sallIhavetosayaboutthat. Amen.

Aren’t you sorry you asked, Cyndy?

Nothing beats the heat better than a contest

**Comments are now Closed ~ Thank you to all who entered ~ Winner will be announced Friday before 12:00 pm**

So I am joining in on the Dog Days of Summer giveaway.

I’m sure y’all know what I’ll be giving away…

50 one-sided mommy cards of your choice. Choose from any of the designs on the Mommy Cards page.

Please note that these cards aren’t for moms only – you can use the designs for calling cards, business cards etc. So please, feel free to enter even if you are not a parent or a parent to a young child!! Also, they make a great gift for moms you know.

To enter, leave a comment and let me know what your favorite design is.
*Due to shipping costs, this contest is only open to residents of the U.S.*
I’ll close comments at 12:01 a.m. (CST) this coming Friday morning, July 27, and I’ll draw a random winner from the list. I’ll announce the winner sometime of Friday.

**Additionally, anyone who doesn’t win and would still like to order any Mommy Cards from Fruition Designs can receive 15% off any Mommy Card order placed before August 15th by mentioning my blog when ordering.


shameless Fruition Designs plug


Okay – by now most of you know about Fruition Designs. I am craving some cool orders to work on and design. So… If you all know someone who wants a custom, contemporary, handcrafted wedding invitation or birth announcement, please send them my way!

*Now, we return you to our normally scheduled broadcast*


My posts have been so serious lately – but I’m actually feeling the most joyful that I have felt in a long time!

Exciting news: Fruition Designs is up and running!! There are still some tweaks to be made and it will be a continual work in progress, but at least it is out there. WOOHOO!! (*happy dance*) — one more thing checked off my “to do ” list.

My Daniel bible study is going well! VERY cool. It’s amazing how much I’ve already learned and the first week just covers a handful of verses!

I have some super cute photos of the kids that I need to get on here. Seamus’ personality has really come out and he is so social. The kid cracks me up. He is crawling and is FAST! I can leave him in the family room, run back to our bedroom real quick and turn around and trip over him coming out my bedroom door.

Oh – and did you see this article? Don’t keep secrets on your cell phone! Be sure to take a look at this article.

Oh! Double Oh! — And just because this post isn’t insightful (you, know, I am just so full of insightfulness…) doesn’t mean I don’t have a nugget of bloggity-goodness for you. Please stop by and see this post at BooMamas blog.

Alright – gotta scoot off and take care of the house (although, this is waaaay more fun!)